Thursday, February 4, 2010

Bila dia mengamuk

This entry Ibu dedicated specially to little naughty Hairee.

Oh boy Hairee..Hairee..You have finally won a medal for being the loudest screamer in town. Yesterday evening he was screaming bloody murder like someone was trying to kill him and it was all started because he wanted a burger; yes! let me repeat again ‘burger’. From being a happy delightful boy he suddenly turned to be a monster and scream so loud until 10 blocks away could hear that.

He asked daddy to get his money from the car, yes he got his own money which he had been holding it since he left the school yesterday as he wanted to buy a toy. Every time when he wanted to buy toys, I always reluctantly asked if he has his own money as I don’t have enough to buy for him. So as he grows bigger he knows how to answer me back by saying his money is in the dashboard of the car…yah all the coins are his. And yesterday he was lucky with a little more than coins includes three ringgit note, itu dah kira banyak lah dia rasa, macam-macam nak beli.

So hubby generously gave the ‘pretending Hairee’s money’ and ‘dukung’ him jalan2 outside the house when he suddenly pointed out the burger stall from our neighborhood stall which is 10 blocks away. Turnout hubby prefer to create chaos at home when he refused to bring him there and passed on the problem to me. By then Hairee already started screaming intensely and throwing tantrums on the floor. He screams to the point no voice out and I've to bath him and quickly brings him to the burger’s stall (kakak kat burger stall tu terus tanya..kenapa hairee nangis..hahaha baru lah ku tahu sampai sejauh itu jeritan dia kedengaran). The temper could last forever if he did not get what he wanted. I’m so worried now and sometime this one thing could make me lose my temper more often than I would like.

Some of the neighbors even came out with queries faces. Ooh..I’m so embarrassed with the elderly next door; I guess this couple is so patient with us. We have been distressing their life with all kind of noises, crying, screaming, shouting includes quarreling. Deep breathing helps. Holding my crying child with my ears ringing has certainly been one of my greatest tests.

Bila dia dpt susun tinggi suka...tapi

kalau satu terjatuh..bila mood tak baik terus mengamuk..habis semua diruntuhkan

13 comments:

LiAnA said...

Aqil mcm ni sekarang... kalau susun brg.. pastu tak ikut kehendak dia.. dia campak brg tu sumer.. nsb ler kalau kena kepala sesapa...

tu hari pegi genting.. tak tau le kesabaran aku mmg tinggi time tu.. kalau kat rumah mmg dh kena dah..abah dia siap dh marah2 ajak balik.. ko tau ler org lelakikan.. mana tahan kerenah anak..

dia baling garfu dgn pisau kat lantai masa waiter tgh amik order..

kerusi customer belakang tu dia tumbangkan.. sampai mintak maaf aku dgn org tu..

sampai naik malas aku nk mkn kat luar dgn dia.. tp mcm mana pun by hook or by crook aku kena ajar dia bersosial.. yesss cabaran mendidik anak semakin sukar..

dulu aku ingat Aqil je yg perangai mcm ni.. nampaknya aku dh ada geng dgn ko..

ayah,ummi, farish said...

kang2 kita x faham ekk, tetiba jer ank kita nie nk mengamuk
diorg pun kdang2 ader moody day jugak...hehheheh

ayah,ummi, farish said...

liana..samalah ngan farish..
skrg nie dah pandai baling2 barang
kalu gi makan kat luar..
klau lama sikit, confrim mengamuk...sbb dia nie jenis x suker duduk lama2 , x kira lah umah org ker, kat tempat makan ker..mesti nk sekejap jer..kalau mengamuk, hbs semua dia campaknyer
tu yg kadang2 malas nk makan kat luar..

-iLLa- said...

hahahhahaa,hairee neh sama laa cm adam..adam maen mega block..susun tinggi2..dia kata klcc..then bila runtuh dia mengamuk..abeh 1 umh sumer org dia mrh..

eynda said...

Rasanyer semua budak ada perangai cam ni....sementara nak besar kan...memang banyak dugaan...

MeL said...

alamak camne tu kak nis handle? i da bole imagine ur situation mesti rimas nk menjawab neighbours yg tanya2 ni..
mika pun da start throwing tantrum nowadays. pening jgk bila dia mengamuk benda yg dia nak xdpt..

zealvia said...

tantrum baby besaq mmg seragam je..kalo kat rumah aku biar je. kang letih senyap lah dia..kalau kat luo buat pangai..terus balik..so silakan tantrum lah ala gaban dlm keta tu. Kalo kat rumah org..aku pinjam hanger kot..wakakakakak

babyluv_ayang said...

semakin budak2 ni membesar mmg bertambah ler ragam diaorg....kita ni as mother kalo tak der sifat penyabar...tak tau ler ruper kita ni mcmana ntah....tapi kekadang mmg ada gak ler kena pukul kat punggong atau pun tertinggi sore...fara kalo kyra buat perangai buang2 barang....sore fara mmg mengalahkan petir or guruh....ilang kesopanan dan kesantunan...heheheheeh....si bob lak yg penyabar....heheheheh...sebab aper...dia buat tak heran ajerk cos dia tau fara mesti akan handle bab2 kekerasan ke atas anak ni...heheheh...garang wo i...heheheh...

KIRIS.. said...

hi..singgah sini pulak.. :) hurmm...anak2 mmg camni kan.. bila baca2 articles from the web baru la jadi tenang sket.. sebab rupanya bende tu mmg normal kat budak2.. kalau tak..mati katak la nak fikir sendiri apa yg tk kene.. and bagusnya bila banyak baca articles ni boleh la dapat idea cmne nak face situation tu..

W..A..H said...

zaara..samalah aqil dgn hairee, hot temper kekadang aku dibuatnya. pergi kedai makan skrg tak seaman dulu, makan pun kene take-turn.

maya..rupanya byk budak gini kan. tapi kan bila ku makan kat kedai, elok aje yg lain..anak aku gak yg buat konsert heboh..

W..A..H said...

ila..tu lah dah susun cecantik bila mood swing, dia runtuh semula pastu kak jadi mangsa kene susun kan utk dia.

eynda..yes..yes..sama kan

W..A..H said...

mel..bila sampai masanya u akan tahu mcm mana nak handle. yg penting kak buat skrg kene sabar, jgn marah dia depan orang or sesekali pukul dia bila dia tengah menjerit menangis..biar dia cool dulu. sebab bila kita marah nanti lagi kuat lah dia memprotes

W..A..H said...

zea..sampai hati ko bagi hanger..wakakaka

fara..mu lagi rumit kan dgn berbadan dua, nak layan si kakak lagi

mummy kaseh..ku dah baca blog mu..tension kan